Marital Security,do you desire for it?

Marital Security is that effort you employ in order to facilitate successful exploration of your marital life.It is the effort you put in, to make a home and to get the home moving.
It must be spiritually synthesized,intellectually appreciated and with your hospitality inputs you are on your way as a youth to achieve a successful marital life.
What you need  to secure Marital Security
1.Vibrant relationship with God
2.Maturity
3.Hospitality
4.Prayer
I have  found out that without the four factors above the people whom i studied would not have achieved much in their marital lives,perhaps they would have divorced by now as the  glamorous Godless people in our society do daily.There are many divorce cases and news flying all about these days,many of us blame it on fame,wealth and glamour.How wrong we are!We, the onlookers in the society, to keep covering up the divorced glamorous people based on their exposures.We mourn their collapsed marriages but watched their immoral videos and listen to their sexually appealing  albums and records.Take musicians for example!Don't we know that,by listening to their songs we are signing the agreement that our own marriages too may hit the rock as theirs have shipwrecked!God forbid we may say, but that's the truth, once you don't see anything wrong in their inability to keep their marriages don't be surprised if you see your marriage in their shoes in  the future.The same goes with celebrated actors and actresses,we watched on Hollywood these days we have them all over the world,many of them have married thrice and we keep honouring them with awards.This is an example of Marital insecurity we are celebrating in our society today, liable of affecting the coming  marriages in the future.Don't bite your tongue my friend,if you see your marriage collapsing in the future,the Bible says what you sow you shall reap,if i were you,i think you should ask such musicians to please fix up their marital loveless lives on the pillar of love before you can listen to their songs!!!
Spiritually synthesized effort account for vibrant relationship between you and God.To secure good marital security and a good guarantee from God as a youth,you must take time to handle every area of your marital life with prayer.The following areas need your attention;your choice,your spouse,your  future,home,children,relationship with your spouse and your common goals.You need to be born again too,that's even the first priority, that is,if you want marital security to be effectively secured for you, because it is part of God's benefit for you,you have to give you life to Jesus.He guaranteed it.I am sure you know divorce is no good thing so draw closer to God and he will draw closer to you.
The second part of our efforts has to do with our intellectual input and this has to do with our maturity.How mature are we physically,emotionally,psychologically and materially.A baby man is never ready for Marriage.Don't blame God if you find yourself lacking in one of these.It is better you keep training to see yourself mature than to rush in and rush out of marriage because the Bible frowns at re-marriage.God can fill any gap if only you keep praying.There is nothing God cannot do.Don't be in a hurry because those who are in a hurry generally make serious mistakes.
The third way to  claim access to marital security is to be hospitable.If you are not hospitable,caring and friendly,you are not ready for marriage!A man or woman who is unfriendly,quarrelsome and selfish cannot make a good husband or wife.Those who have no time for for other people are not prepared for marriage.
Our fears as youth these days is base on the future's uncertainty.We don't know what tomorrow may bring hence what's next for us to do,if not to draw close to God and how can we do that if we are yet to surrender our lives to God.You can have a marriage but a marriage without God is  already deprived of its happiness.If you are divinely inclined to God it will be in your interest ,to start presenting your marriage before God now.You need to allocate time to pray on it,you could reserve a day for it,by doing so,i believe you shall have good testimonies to share.
Finally strive to get to a spiritual level where you will be able to know,at least, if God is saying Yes or No.